As a mom of two, I can confidently say that we spend countless hours preparing for life with our new babies. Before welcoming my daughter, I didn’t consider how becoming a mom would change me forever. But boy oh boy, did it completely change me.
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Overall, becoming a mom has shaped me into a better person. It has softened me and filled my life with joy and happiness that I never experienced before.
Here are 11 ways becoming a mom changed me and probably will change you too!
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Ways Becoming a Mom Will Change You Forever
1. More Self Awareness
I like to think of myself as a pretty self aware individual. However, after becoming a mom, I would say that I have become more self aware than before.
Like many other mamas, I want to be the best version of myself for my kids. So early on, I did a lot of self reflecting and tried to make changes while my kids are young. I do this regularly.
For example, I know that I do not handle stress that well. So I try to manage my emotions better. Instead of hitting the panic button, I take a breath and try to remain calm. I watch what I do and what I say, especially in front of my kids since they’re little sponges.
Am I perfect? Nope. But I know my strengths and I am also very aware of my weaknesses and try to make improvements each day.
2. Less Selfish
I was also not a selfish person before having children, but now that I am a mom, I would say that I am selfless to a fault.
While it is expected and wonderful to put my kids first, I do wish I were better at making time for myself. I notice that on days when I do things for myself, I am a better mom and a much happier human.
Here is a recent very embarrassing example. I have not had a pedicure in years. I do not even remember the last time, I just know that it has been forever. Anyway, I ended up making the time to take my butt to the nail salon.
While enjoying a morning of some much needed pampering, I promised myself that I’d never neglect myself like that again. So I am currently working on taking better care of myself too.
3. Your Body Changes
I probably don’t have to elaborate too much here. If you’re already a mom then you already know. After delivering one baby vaginally and another via a c-section, my body is definitely different.
I never knew about the c-section shelf until I ended up with one and then learned it is actually a very common result.
I always struggled with body image, but after becoming a mom I look at my body, recognize that it is not perfect and appreciate it for bringing me two beautiful healthy blessings. It has been a really long road and I have lots of scars and stretchmarks, but I honestly wouldn’t change a thing.
4. Set Bigger Financial Goals
Quite honestly I wish I got into personal finances much sooner. I didn’t become a saver until having kids. From my experience, becoming a mom has made me dream bigger. I want to give my kids the best life.
Now, I am a super saver and have learned a lot about investing (thanks to my husband!)
Moms want to set their little ones up for a successful future. That includes making sure the family is making smart financial decisions. Get out of debt, budget, and set savings goals.
I use this budget spreadsheet for our finances and I am obsessed!
5. More Health Conscious
Every mom wants their children to be healthy. I would say that I have always been pretty health conscious, but these days I am researching what brands and food are ACTUALLY healthy. Our family says no to sugar, processed food, and buys products that are clean and free from harmful chemicals.
If you’re looking for a great clean baby body wash or shampoo, this is our personal favorite!
Don’t get me wrong. We don’t COMPLETLY deprive ourselves from sweet treats. From time to time, we definitely indulge! I’m just saying for the most part, we strive to make healthy choices.
6. More Anxious
I never understood why mothers worry so much until I became a mother myself. You want your kids to be healthy and happy. So when your baby gets hurt or upset it is very easy to get all worked up.
We learned my daughter had eczema at 3 months old and it was terrible. It would keep her up and she would scratch her skin so much that it would bleed. It was in that moment that I realized how little control I have. You want to take away the pain and suffering your children experience, and knowing that you can’t always do that is a horrible feeling. Hello anxiety!
My anxiety has definitely gotten worse since becoming a mother. I now understand why my mother worried so much. Tips are welcome!
7. More Gratitude
I count my blessings every single day.
My fertility journey has been a long and rough road. I have experienced 6 miscarriages and after what felt like forever the Lord has blessed me with two beautiful healthy babies.
I am so grateful for my family.
8. More Flexible
I quickly learned that being flexible is important. This was a bit hard for me to digest, but you have no other choice.
You may have plans to leave the house by 10 AM, but your toddler might decide to throw a tantrum on your way out the door. Or your baby might spit up all over your cute outfit and freshly done hair. Basically kids can derail your plans very easily.
So I am willing to bet you’ll become more flexible too!
9. Strengethened My Marriage
Having kids has brought my husband and I closer together.
Sure we became one when we got married, but once we had children together I really felt like we were a family.
Our values and morals aligns, so we are always on the same page.
10. I Now Have More Appreciation for My Parents
I have always known that my parents are great ones. They have always put me first and have been wonderful role models.
Now that I am a parent and experience all the challenges that come along with it, I have a tremendous appreciation for my parents.
Seeing them shower my children with the unconditional love they have always given me, is really special.
11. Brought Greater Meaning and Happiness to My Life
My kids motivate me to be healthy, be the best version of myself, and have given my life more purpose. I have felt happiness before having kids, but I am now at my happiest. All because of them.
I am sure many mamas can relate to this list ways becoming a mother has changed me! How has becoming a mom changed you?
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